Dear Angela: I am in love with my employer. As his personal assistant, I take care of more than the paperwork in the office. I pick up his child from school and run his personal errands, too. He is divorced and now he is beginning to see other people. I want to tell him how I feel, but I am afraid to. I want him to come to me with his feelings if he has any for me. I need your insights. Does he have feelings for me? If I told him how I feel, would it make a difference to him? Tiffany - 03/13/1984
Dear Tiffany: From your birthday in March 2009 to your next birthday in 2010, you will find much of your time spent on self-improvement tasks vs keeping company with others. Your cycle indicates that you are more in the thinking mode and wondering about your near future prospects in the relationship house; however, it is showing you without a romantic partner such as your employer. Although your employer cares for your well-being, I am not seeing any romantic relationship between the two of you. If you decide to reveal your feelings to him, do know that his feelings are not anywhere near matching yours. Do know this is a blessing! Expect for someone special to enter your life around the June to July time frame. By the fall season 2010, you are already within a committed relationship with an exceptional man. Best wishes!
Dear Angela: An old friend of mine and I reconnected when she moved back into the area. I have always known her to be a sensible person, but now she is not the same person I grew up with. She’s obsessive about most things – especially men. She has casual affairs with men and then obsesses over them. She treats these affairs as if they are relationships and gets angry and upset if a man doesn’t respond to her ideals. I am beginning to think that my friend is a psycho. She has stalked two men that I know of seeking revenge. There is no reasoning with her. She calls me all of the time and expects me to listen to her ranting about some guy. Now I am afraid to answer my phone. Will she stop this crazy behavior? I want to be her friend, but I don’t wish to be her counselor anymore.
Sonya – 09/24/1976 – Friend – 06/17/1976
Dear Sonya: As you well know, your friend is trying to follow a path that does not exist. Even though you may believe she can stop her behavior, it is unrealistic to believe that she can or will. Your friend is experiencing mental and emotional problems that only a medical professional can assist her with. Between right now and the next two weeks, expect her behavior to escalate to an uncomfortable level. I am seeing law enforcement and/or medical vehicles coming to her aid. It is wise to stay clear of her in person until all things settle and has been treated fully for her condition.
Dear Angela: I was laid off from my job nine weeks ago and I have been without a job ever since. I am in the Yonkers area of New York. I have applied for jobs, but I never get any response. I have two months of reserves sitting in the bank for my mortgage and monthly obligations. If I don’t find something soon, I’m afraid I will lose it all. My credit card companies have reduced my credit limit, so I cannot rely on that. Do you see me getting a job soon? There has not been one interview request since I’ve applied for new jobs. Neil – 08/23/1971
Dear Neil: Incorporating new ways into your job search will prove to be successful. My impression is that your next job will not only be a good one, but will come out of an area that would be known for its waterfront. Perhaps a downtown district or an area that is being revitalized which exist in or around Yonkers. The latter part of October proves to be your best timing in landing something new. An opportunity north of where you are also comes, but it would not be as stable as the one near some waterfront. You will be employed soon.
