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Dear Angela:
I am in my second year at a community college. I live at home and I have had a part-time job since I graduated high school. Up until now, my plans were to stay in the state and attend a university to complete my next two years of school. I now have a dilemma: I have fallen in love with a man I’ve been dating for a year. He is older than I am and has custody of his young child from a previous marriage. He wants to move to another state for work and has been asking if I will move with him. I love him and wish to be with him, but I am having second thoughts about leaving the life I have built here. Am I wrong to think this way? I would appreciate it if you could look into this situation and tell me if my relationship with him will last if I make this move. Savannah – 03/24/1993. Mark – 11/12/1983.
Dear Savannah:
It is not wrong to question anything when making a life decision. I will say; however, that if you decide to make a move out of state, you can expect negative consequences. First of all, I want you to know that Mark is merely exchanging one problem for another, as if “grasping at straws,” and he will not succeed in finding the work needed to support a household in another state. Secondly, should you make the move, you can expect to return back to where you live now within three months.(cont'd)
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